The Shy Guy (or Girl)

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My apologies for the silly Mario reference in the title. I had to do it. But on to the real topic of shy characters...

Many people have a hard time interacting with shy characters, whether it's their own or someone else's. This will probably be one of the shortest guides posted, as there isn't a whole lot to go into. "Shy" can encompass a wide variety of characters, but it can also give them limitations. Here's a few thoughts on shy characters, with plenty of room for development from discussion.

[/font][/div][li style="text-align:justify;"]Shy characters do not usually initiate conversation. Even among familiar faces, they will usually wait until someone else approaches them. They can be afraid to initiate, feel awkward, or simply wait to make sure someone else actually wants to talk with them- a fear of rejection undertone.

[/li][li style="text-align:justify;"]Your character doesn't always have to be quiet despite their shyness. Generally more soft-spoken, shy characters don't have to be limited in their speech. Around those they are comfortable with, those who provoke them, or simply by force, shy characters can become very vocal. [/li]

[li style="text-align:justify;"]Shy characters can speak volumes... with their bodies. Some shy characters don't talk much verbally, but often use body language to show how they truly feel. Whether it's hugging their bodies or looking away/down in discomfort, or looking more open and at ease around friends. Just because they aren't chatty doesn't mean they don't feel comfortable around those with which they feel an emotional connection.[/li]

[li style="text-align:justify;"]It's important to consider why your character is shy. Are they an introvert, do they prefer to spend time alone rather than in a group setting? Did something happen in their past to make them more shy? Are they emotionally-detached as a character? Understanding the psychology involved in your characterization can be very helpful in good and believable development.

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As always, feel free to add to the discussion with comments, questions, or observations.